Mon 9 Jun 2008
I’ve never posted before on Ephblog, and I wasn’t planning to begin now. However, the combination of missing our scheduled meeting Saturday morning (Paula Moore Tabor ‘76 grabbed me and shepherded me, lovingly, to the 2003 section when I was walking towards the balcony) and seeing as my return to ephblog from the ephoric (yes, I know, terrible pun) heights of reunions a couple of posts about the Iraq War and questioning each others patriotism (that’s what we do at ephblog now? really?) either directly or in vague insinuations, I decided it was my duty to try to change the tenor of the conversation.
First, it was HOT this weekend all over the East Coast, and Williamstown was no exception. That meant little to the fun of reunions, except, perhaps for explaining the absurd number of alumni and children swarming the free gelato stand whenever it was open. Swarming, truly, is the only adequate term for it.
Seeing campus again was a wonderful treat and I’m still somewhat overwhelmed by the mixed feelings I had–the joy of seeing so many great friends again and how most of us seem to have found a good path only 5 years out of college was coupled with the return of some of those pathetic freshman insecurities I had thought I had fully outgrown (will I be cool enough? Who will remember me?). It was, however, overall a truly wonderful weekend.
A couple stories to get it started may help. In the small world category, one of my hallmates freshman year is now teaching in public school outside of NYC and mentioned the reunion to one of his fellow teachers, who happens to have been my high school mentor way back when he taught in Princeton before moving. So, if they happen to find ephblog, Austin and Mr. Heyman, hi!
In the “Morty’s not just our President, he’s a bad-ass” category, Morty promised me we’d share a beer the Saturday night with the massive open bar. Unfortunately, the fifth year reunion was somewhat…impatient…with our consumption and by the time Morty made it over to our reunion (around 10 pm), we were out of beer. Fortunately, someone found him an unopened (but warm) can of PBR. So picture Morty with a rotating group of 5 or 6 26-27 year olds all of us just off of a three hour open bar and him politely and kindly holding a warm can of PBR. In thirty minutes of talking, I didnt see him sip from it once, but I still give him credit for it.
Finally, in the “why do I get myself into these things”, while David might not have met me, he probably got a good look at me at the alumni meeting. When the class of 2003 (03! 03! 03!) won the attendance award (I know, not surprising at all), no class officer was in attendance at the meeting (d’oh). So while every alumni waited patiently for someone–ANYONE–to step up and accept the award so we could move on to more interesting stuff, no one in our class knew what to do. Enter my stupid/brave/slighty hungover self. Jumping over classmates, I raced to the stage, got the cup and then thought “wait, what do I do now?” Kindly, our Alumni President in one of his last acts of his presidency was polite enough to whisper to me “now bring it back”. Unfortunately, with my coffee still struggling to kick in, I didn’t realize where “back” was. Thinking that it meant back to where the cup had been (on the far side of the stage) before I saved my class the embarrassment of not picking up its one and only award (curse you 2004 for your high giving rates!), I took a couple hesitant steps towards the other side of the stage before being (again, very politely) told “no, back to your class”. Now somewhat red with embarrassment, I turned, faced the crowd and raised the cup before retreating back to our section with the biggest darn bowl I’d ever seen.
So David, and anyone else who was at reunions, that confused guy from the class of 2003 in the brown shirt? That’s me!

June 9th, 2008 at 11:07 am
Thank you. I wish you’d make a habit of posting.
Great stories. Both the volunteering to get the bowl and Morty with the beer seem so quintessentially Williams to me. And, as you probably learned, pre-frosh-like anxieties aside*, reunions are about having little nuggets of wonderful encounters in an all too short time, while checking back in with the years when you were 18-21, classmates, and that amazing setting.
I’m glad you could go.
Anyone else have stories to tell?
*How good of you to acknowledge them. I always feel those feelings beforehand and wonder whether I should go. Sadly, I think similar feelings may keep some people away, especially if it has been a long time since they visited the College — and yet just about everyone soon seems to feel comfortable, as far as I can tell.
June 9th, 2008 at 11:17 am
So that was you Rory. I observed your impromptu showmanship from the upfront 50 year (Great Class of ‘58) position and wondered who the fellow with close cropped hair could be If not a class officer at the moment, your handling of the crisis demonstrated the required Moxie for class leadership. Moxie probably developed in the thrust and parry of the World of Ephblog.
June 9th, 2008 at 11:27 am
Oh, Rory… LOL!
Your post is certainly sufficient amends for not “checking in”.
What a sweet, funny account of your weekend, made all the more dear by your admitting of “insecurities” beforehand. All of us know those feelings…all too well!
So glad you had a great time. But alas, the ‘visual’ I now have of you, gallivanting haphazardly across the stage with a gigantic bowl, only makes the break-dancing video, more anticipated!
June 9th, 2008 at 11:39 am
ROTFL. Oh Rory, how perfect. I will be laughing about this one for a looooong time. And will potentially now start offering you large cups/bowls when we hang out so you can re-create the moment.
I think video of this might be even more valuable than the video of you dancing. FM, anyone else willing to contribute ;)
June 9th, 2008 at 11:45 am
In a word, JG…or two, or three…
YES, YES, and YES!
Where and how, do we get said video?
June 9th, 2008 at 12:57 pm
I’m in.
June 9th, 2008 at 6:51 pm
Too bad he didn’t “save the moment” by breaking into a break dance then and there at mid-stage. Then we’d surely be able to get our hands on footage.
Still, a purple superhero cape and lots of big bowls to you in the future, Rory, for saving the honor of 03!03!03!
June 11th, 2008 at 12:11 am
Great story—or rather set of stories. Yeah, reunion is sort of a mix of fear and joy, but I’ve always found joy to outdo fear by about 9 to 1.
Over time (my next reunion will be my 35th) the jerks mellow out and everyone just enjoys spending time with a bunch of really bright people who do interesting things. In my class we run the gamut, from two former members of the U.S. House of Representatives to a current state Attorney General, to a plastic surgeon, to a number of high school teachers, to a squash professional, to the owner of the house that Jackie Kennedy grew up in, to a whole bunch of lawyers, to a person who works for a U.S. intelligence agency (but won’t admit it), to an owner of a coffee bean company—the list goes on and on. It’s a lot of fun talking to classmates and hearing about interesting lives.
So for anyone hesitant about going to reunion, I highly recommend you say to yourself, “What the hell” and just go. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised at the fun you have.
June 11th, 2008 at 6:12 am
We should save Guy’s post and put it up next year several months before reunion.
Any more reports from this year’s reunions?
Stories?
Sightings?
Did Lee-Hom, our own music superstar, show up?
Did Dave see Erin?
Does anyone have photos to share? I see there is a big set from the Class of ‘63. Anyone else?
I saw what I thought were pictures from Mount Hope Farm and wondered how much the College uses it, what it is used for, and what its status and plans for it are.
Did anyone have a chance to see the exhibit of Emily Driscoll’s (’05) work?
Were there mini-reunions of singing groups, teams, or other groups?
What did people think of the construction projects and the new buildings?
Did anyone go to the Memorial Service? Among alumni being memorialized were 1st Lt. Nathan Krisoff USMC (’03) and Shirin Shakir ‘03, a sad first reunion service for the Class of ‘03. I thought of them and their friends and family over the weekend.
Did anyone see their professors and gather new stories of the Good People of Williams?
What effect did the alumni podcasts (thank you again, Chris and Dave) have on the Classes of ‘58 and ‘88?
What happened at the EphBlog meeting?
June 12th, 2008 at 10:20 pm
Um, Rory, I was the vice president (at least before we announced new officers on Saturday night). I just could only imagine how much you would have preferred to accept the cup.
–Danni Lapin
June 13th, 2008 at 11:10 am
why didn’t you get it? it seemed like every other class had someone designated to get things? a thousand curses! :)
June 13th, 2008 at 11:24 am
Danni,
Where can we get video of this…’event’?
June 13th, 2008 at 7:49 pm
Here’s the President of the Alumni Society (Rich Levy ‘74), an enormous bowl, and a young guy with a brown shirt and close-cropped hair. Might we have spotted Rory in the slew of reunion pictures the College has put up online?
FROSH mom is holding her breath…
Someone ?
Anyone?
(And Rory where is the break-dance footage?)
June 13th, 2008 at 7:51 pm
The link didn’t post.
Trying again:
http://williamsalumni.smugmug.com/gallery/5145930_BzkTH#311320750_dWeZt
June 13th, 2008 at 8:08 pm
Well, I know he isn’t the guy with the yellow tie accepting the bowl in another photo, so….odds are good, Larry!
Not quite the same as live footage showing the ’scurrying across the stage’ he described…but…(LOL), that is one gigantic bowl!
So, I can imagine the rest …
Nice smile and energy, whoever it is.
June 13th, 2008 at 8:13 pm
Given that it shows off his charming smile, I’m hoping I won’t get in trouble for confirming the Rory sighting. That is indeed our dear EB commenter.
June 13th, 2008 at 10:09 pm
Hooray! Thanks, JG.
Now the next pieces we’re looking for are the footage of the cross-stage scurry and the long-sought break-dance piece.
Good smile.
June 13th, 2008 at 10:18 pm
And here then is part of the 03!03!03! group including a certain EphBlogger.
http://williamsalumni.smugmug.com/gallery/5145930_BzkTH#311320951_wrtZG
June 13th, 2008 at 10:45 pm
One more really good one.
http://williamsalumni.smugmug.com/gallery/5145930_BzkTH#311324923_FDo8T
Now I’m looking for any of the Kane family.
I did find some of the other podcasters already.
Lots of great pictures. I almost feel as though I’d been there. Many thanks to the College for putting the pictures up.
June 13th, 2008 at 11:35 pm
Great photos, Larry!
Dang, Rory…for such a smart, serious, braniac of a fellow, you have one charming, mega-watt, ‘light up the house’, smile!
Lovin these photos, Larry. Come forth with more, please…and the break-dancing…